Yes, I think you're right about doing more for myself. It's all been very work-focused lately, I've noticed. Fortunately, the fall will bring some of my regular activities back on my schedule. I have a weekend retreat planned in October, and some other events coming up.

I also need to work on my tone - I have not been as friendly as I would like lately.

H said yesterday it's "too hard" to try to fix our M. I asked him what he felt was too hard, specifically, but he couldn't really answer.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17