In further thinking about your friends comment. I think you need to start this relationship over anyway and so why not start that with being friends. I know its not what you ultimately want but its the beginning of building a new better foundation. You dont want the same relationship you had anyway. You need a fresh start to build a new and improved relationship.
Married 1991 D 32 GD 12 D 30 GD 3 S 29 M 58 S 57 1st bomb 2008 2nd bomb 4/2015 same person New bomb 09/24 I fear those big words which make us so unhappy.