Well, that was a late night!!! Good for you, and glad you had a good time. I'm not surprised about people making the assumption you were unfaithful. The stats show that men do cheat more than women (tho women are catching up I think) - tho if OM1 is on the scene at nursery, people will also think she has become involved with someone else pretty quickly.

I think it is fair enough to put people straight on your own fidelity, without revealing the cause of your break up. As for your W firmly believing she was the victim of abuse. I get that she is holding on to that one pretty tightly. For if she lets go of that, what does she need to face? I am a woman that broke up my family and became involved with an OP...

Hope you're not too tired this morning and you have a good bike ride if that's what you plump for.

Catch up later xx

Last edited by Sotto; 08/30/15 09:52 AM.
T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
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BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

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