Hey, one thing H did say that *pleased the heck out of me* last night... We were sitting there and my friend has a red stuffed gorilla, and so does my H. A friend at work bought it for him as a V day gift. He had told me it was his FF that I like. After admitting EA, I thought it may have been from OW. That's when I bought it a leather neckband so that I "personalized" it (aka "claiming my territory.")
Anyway, I got a bit nasty when she said "my honey bought it for me..." I then started to say "so did his..." Of course, I have no proof of that, and he may just as well have been telling the truth about it. I stopped and apologized and said, "residual emotion, I was just getting nasty and hurt."
H then said, in very sincere, forceful, reassuring tone, "BELIEVE me, there's absolutely NOTHING that should make you feel like that." Which I took to mean "hey, it's in the past and means nothing to me, at least not compared to you... Maybe my take was wrong, but I think I was on the money.
