Thank you for such kind words. What a turnaround you have made! You seem to be wearing your right thinking cap, now. I'm glad you are in IC, and that she gives you help in how to deal with this awful experience.

Your W will sense that you've really let go of her. It will probably challenge her, to see if she can tempt you back in emotionally. Just keep your guard up and don't be surprised to see anything.

Has your IC given you advice about how to move forward from the co-dependency? I hope you can get stronger, before WW decides to test your emotional attachment.

I hope you stay with us, b/c I think you'll need support. ((hugs))

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!