Had a nice day out with my friend and her son. Hadn't seen them for over six months, and was good to catch up. We talked about some of the stuff I've been up to and they were pretty wowed by me GAL. As always I felt some trepidation seeing them as I know this friend keeps in touch with H. She didn't know that he had actually filed for D, so I told her that today.
I didn't ask about H at all, but friend volunteered some info. She hasn't been in touch with H for a couple of months, but last time she was OW1 was still on the scene and SS had been introduced to her. I understand a little more about HXW and her current anger & unhappiness if OW1 is around when SS goes to visit. That means OW1 has been on the scene (somewhat on and off) for 18 months now. Tho last time I snooped (in April) H was sending late night flirty emails to POW in the US, and I had also heard he was 'dating.'
Friend also told me that OW1's partner (who she cheated with H on) has also followed her to London from the Middle East in hope of getting her back. His M also ended due to A with OM1. Ugh, Ugh, Ugh. Sounds like a horrible situation and makes me a bit mad that H still wants to be with her, despite what's going on and doesn't want a nice woman like me!!!
Okay, I know, I know - rant over. I'm just having a moment & I'll get through it....
Anyway - apart from that. It was a good day and I maintained fab PMA, looked great & had a good time. PMA didn't even slip during these revelations and I didn't even ask follow up Q's....so not bad in all. I just always feel a bit raw seeing people who bring me closer to what is going on with H.
Have a good Saturday evening all xxx
Last edited by Sotto; 08/29/1505:57 PM.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
