Last night I was not the brightest bulb in the pack. We have a guy here at work that came from our Midwest plant. He reminds me very much of H. So, a few coworkers were going out to show him a good time. I went along and invited H. They have the same job, similar sense of humor, and even look similar. They hit it off and were talking shop all night. One coworker kept ordering drinks and soon we wound up back at their house to play pool. 2 am we decide to head home, and H wants ML until 3, so here I am, with 2 hours sleep trying to figure out what happened.
This guy drank too much and started telling me I was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen. He said he had been watching me all week. Every time H went in the other room or to the bathroom, he would touch me and I would have to tell him to back off because I was married. Interesting. H never saw any of it... even though the guy wasn't exactly the most stealthy about his actions. I can't believe he didn't see it. Now I'm worried that I did damage by not leaving instead of just keeping this guy at bay by letting him know to back off. I'm wondering if H is distancing because he did see some of it and thinks I would have done something. At one point, I took the guy in the kitchen and told him, look, you're a nice guy and I like you, but I am married and I do NOT cheat on my H. H may have thought we were doing something in there?
Maybe it's just the mood he was in today, with very little sleep, that is making him distant. I will have to watch over the next couple of days for the fallout, and I hope I didn't do serious damage.
