Your last post really resonated with me. My W is the same way, she sometimes mentions the innocent flirting with OM, but later I come to find out that she is the one pursuing him in many ways, liking the attention she gets, tries to downplay it to me.
She acts as if she is the happiest she has ever been, and for me I am in such a painful place. I want her to be happy of course, but it still stings that it isn't with me.
You handle the conversation with your D perfectly, I had the same conversation with my S7. "We love each other, we love both him and his brother and always will. One day we might be all be together under the same roof"
Wanted to just say that we are here for you, keep your chin up, and continue to trust our lord with your sitch. God bless.
M: 34 W: 33 S: 7 S: 14 months BD: 6/2015 Separation: 6/2015 Back and Forth between Home and Moms