Hi Jim. Sorry to hear this turn of events but I have a couple of thoughts
Your text was great , controlled , short and to the point. Your W is moving on in her mind and you are still the cause of all her woes. We have all seen that a person can only be happy if they are happy with themselves first. It appears your W is trying to find happiness throigh someone else and that is a recipe for failure
Your stance on the D is perfect while keeping true to yourself.
It's said often Jim but D is only a piece of paper and none of us know what the future holds.
I hope you have plans this weekend and you can keep busy. If you don't mind could you update us on your thoughts a bit more often for a few days if that's ok
It's a tough time Jim and with the kids gone it doesn't make it easier.