"There are bridges that cross the universe to help you find the people who will make a difference in your life." Steven Aitchison
Time for a new thread! Help please I still have not mastered linking threads.
I think this forum is a bridge in itself. Coming here I never feel alone. There is always someone that has been through similar situations and has felt the things I feel. I am not alone.
*shiver* As I wrote this I remembered to a very traumatic time over 11 years ago. My father had passed away after a very difficult cancer battle at the young age of 60. I was inconsolable. My father and I were very much alike and fought like crazy over the years, but in the last year of his life we became so close. On the way to the funeral home there were dozens of people walking on the side of the highway with signs that said" You are not alone!" I feel it was a message from my dad. It comforted me. This board comforts me now.
Thank you all that post your inner most thoughts and your deepest feelings. Thank you to the Old-timers and Newbies that give advice, lend an ear or a (virtual) shoulder to cry on. I know being part of this community has helped me get through some rough times.
One more quote: "If God brings you to it He will bring you through it."
Di-mond in the rough M-45 H-38 My children S-25 D-23 T 5 M 4 H left April Fools Day 2015
1. In the new thread find the first post 2. Click on the little yellow icon in the top left hand corner of the first post(just before the Re: Bridges 3. Go to the top of the screen to the Www search bar 4. click in that and the http ref shows: starts www.divorcebusting.com/ forums..... 5. Select all then copy 6. Go to the last post of the old thread 7. Open up a reply then say new thread link, then make a return and past the link on a new line 8. Submit the new reply 9. Test the link if it doesn't work delete post the reply and try again. Took me a while to learn
10. Yippe it works so repeat the other way round
The other way round:
11. In the old thread find the last post 12. Click on the little yellow icon in the top left hand corner (just before the Re: ......) 13. Go to the top of the screen to the Www search bar 14. click in that and the http ref shows 15. Select all and then copy 16. Go to the next post of the new thread 17. Open up a reply then say new thread link and past the link 18. .submit the new reply 19. Test the link if it doesn't work delete the reply and try again. Took me a while to learn
To do a link to all threads go to My Stuff and Posts then topics created
Then from 13 onwards repeat
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Last edited by Vanilla; 08/28/1511:34 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
Diana, I like your bridge analogy. This board provides me with so much comfort as well. It is better than MC, better than IC, better than any books or articles I have read.
I think the people with the signs were a sign from your Dad too. What a comforting story.
I am going to read your old thread to catch up on your sitch.
Uggghhhh!!! I just wish I could just shut up. Was having a good conversation with H about really nothing and I had to bring up R. All I get from him is I don't know...I don't know. I don't know if I want to live with you again. I don't know if I can make an effort for our marriage. I want to be alone. He flip flops all over the place. In May/June during MC it was I want nothing more than to be with my wife again and now he wants nothing from me. I get so frustrated. He doesn't want to make an effort. Says he used to love me enough, but now doesn't anymore. Sometimes I just wish he would end it. Right now, the way he is (selfish) I really don't want to have him as my H. If I would have known the real him I would have never married him. Btw, he tells me that he was trying to be someone that he is not when we first met and then married and the way that he is now is the way he is, wether I like it or not. Pretty frustrated right now! Oh and right towards the end of our conversation he tells me that he woke up this morning and was going to suggest for me to come see him tomorrow and spend a couple of days. ???? WTF???
Rant over!!! *breathe*
Di-mond in the rough M-45 H-38 My children S-25 D-23 T 5 M 4 H left April Fools Day 2015
