Hi Peter, thank you

It is so hard to foresee how she is going to act, how she will spin it, or if she will just play victim - I won't know until I see it I guess.

I have read that it may be best to tell them together with WW, and at one time I agreed with this, but I would like to be sure what she is going to say to them - and if I don't agree with what she wants to tell them, I don't want to sit and make them think that I agree. Though I can correct it later with them too.

I would like to tell the boys about this (I think I will tell them each separately) - I think the boys will take it well.

When I/we tell D15, this will be the hardest. I am not sure how she will react or what she will think - I guess that is to be seen too.

Thanks for the reminder about Tao Te Ching (I'm on it - it relaxes me).


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015