It's time for that little girl to grow up. She's old enough to have an A, she is old enough to take the consequences. Its her responsibility for herself to do that.
What happened in childhood is awful, but the worst of it is her mother holding her culpable.
And you don't have to do anything ok! You can chose to protect yourself and your WW by being strong and ceasing to enable.
Lashing out doesn't generate love, just confusion.
You told me about WW but not about you.
Where does your fear of abandonment come from?
Is it blocking you?
Is it inside , outside?
Have you had IC?
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
