It doesn't sound like he is seeing you as a fallback (just my reading - sounds like courting behavior). The question is, is he willing to do the hard work it will take to restore the M?
I'd be hesitant on the overnight, but it sounds like you are OK with going ahead. Obviously don't do anything you are uncomfortable with. As Z said, there will be time.
Definitely don't drop your GAL just because he is giving you some attention and showing your some signs of hope. That very likely is what is drawing him back. He also may lose interest if he sees that the new exciting you is not going to be sustained and you're headed back to the same old, same old. Accept some invitations, but continue to focus on your life apart from him. If it's working, don't stop. Too soon to tell, but you're starting to see some kind of promising pattern.
Good luck. At least one of us might be getting some coffee
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15
