Azzork - yes! exactly! I struggle with not wanting to be/sound controlling but I am so frustrated when he seems to make me beg for information. Thanks for letting me know I am not alone in this type of predicament.

I knew as soon as I typed it that it wasn't good

Me:33 H:36
T:13 years
M:10 years
S4
Separated 05/15
H Filed 06/15