123gwen Thanks for your support and enouragement. It is good to hear from others in the same situation as oneself. You are still new to this - I will check out your thread to find out where you're at.
I;m almost 5 years in and only now starting to GAL. I kicked H out 2.5 weeks ago due to his continuing liason with OW. I lost patience (and self respect) and wanted rid of the constant secrecy, deceit and lack of respect. I am ashamed I didn't do this 4.5 years ago, but with no headspace it was difficlut to see which direction to go in for the best
Thanks again.
Joss.
Married Dec. 1997 EA discovered April 2011 H lived at home until August 10th 2015 Separated August 10th 2015 kids aged 8. 14 and 15 I think we're done.