I know you can't retain another lawyer, but do you have the opportunity to at least consult with another one just to get a second opinion?
I don't know what your financial situation is. $10,000 is a lot of money to anyone. You will have to make that decision. And if it is a purely financial decision - make sure you weight the potential risks and court costs.
And if it is more of an emotional decision......well, Stacey, I would really give some serious thought to just putting this behind you. And if that really feels wrong think about what is to be lost or gained about fighting him on it.
