Well he has admitted he doesn't want to change anything..he blamed me for everything..she didn't help anything by telling him he's perfect like he is..if some miracle happened and he actually felt remorseful about all of this and actually wanted to treat me right then that's another story..I don't want me and my kids to go through this for a third time..he has said he is never coming back anyway..i know don't believe what they say but he has convinced himself that I can't make him happy and he doesn't care if I'm happy apparently so it makes me feel better to shut the door
That stuff in blue? Dont worry about that. Of course he will say those things right now. So I wouldnt put any stock in that. And what I bolded....thats not your responsibility.
And lastly, the stuff in red. I understand that. The way I see it, youve been standing at the open door waiting. What if you just walk away from the door instead of slamming it closed? Stop worrying about R for now , and let it happen or not happen at some time in the future?
