VGE- so sorry you had to endure this hearing but glad you have some clear boundaries in dealing with things. Your H was extremely bold in his actions and very cruel to you. I think his actions during your treatment speak volumes about his inability to face his life and his choices.

Right now all that matters is you and your children. You are sounding strong VGE! You have been gaining strength in spite of incredible circumstances. I am in awe of your evolution as a woman of faith.

You have so much to be proud of right this very second! There is going to be time to deal with the rest of things. Right now just take a deep breathe and focus on your needs.

This is tough stuff without medical issues and you have been so incredibly strong. I wish you blessings and peace. You are not alone.


M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou