Pink, good to see a post from you.....been thinking about you and I'm glad to read how well you are doing.

RD, just dropping in to say Hi - hope you are doing okay my friend....and looking forward to your holiday, which isn't too far away now.

One thing that always strikes me in your sitch is the level of 'open house' you offer to your W. I can understand why - but equally, it does allow your W 'family time' without really taking much responsibility as a parent - and not being a spouse just now at all.

I imagine this may be something you'll want to change at some point. But only when you are ready. It may be that a house move to 'your place' may lead to new boundaries.

Do keep posting RD and letting us know how you are doing.

Take care xx

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus