Today is the 20th anniversary of the day I met my W. Coincidentally, I told her it is over tonight. I'm sure it was over for her a long time ago, and I probably sounded foolish saying it, but I closed the door on her forever. I told her that even if she begged me (which she wouldn't, I'm sure) I would not have her back.
It started with an argument. I told her that I wanted to visit me sister with the kids for the Jewish new year. The kids want to see their aunt. W refused because she wants to be with kids. I explained that there are going to be many more holidays where we will not be with our children, thanks to her. I know I lost my cool and it is very counter to DB. Everything escalated from there. It was a very ugly conversation.
