The alimony scares me as well. I want to remain in the same house for the children. She couldn't afford in my sitch but I will be making every attempt. I have been planning for worst case and been told by attorney friends it will not be that bad.
Keep your head up

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15