I think I belong in Piecing...

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Sorry to hear that things are not great at the moment and that your H is not treating you well. Sounds like he still has lots of built up anger.

I think it is smart that you are working towards financial independence. It has to be a big weight on your shoulders.

I will say that I commend your H format least giving R a chance. While it is hard to predict the final outcome, he is doing more than other WHs on here.maybe it will just take time for his resentment to wane.

Do you have any goal steps you are taking to be more financially secure?

Hang in there!!