Thank you everyone! I will respond to each of you separately, but wanted to update first.

Conversations with WW need to happen immediately I guess. She is now receiving mail from soliciting lawyers about our case. I completely forgot about this - she received these when her DUI case was filed too. I don't want her to find out this way.

I intercepted the first one, but need to get this announcement done now (I can't just intercept all of her mail).

I did want to see if I could wait until after her Friday night lie happens - and after my parents anniversary lunch on Sunday - but again, what's the difference now.

Now I am feeling pushed (though it is my fault). Stress level at a new high.

Thanks for the support


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015