WAH, in the thick of divorce

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I need some advice - I had to take our dog to the vet this morning to have her teeth extracted (she broke 3). I have been keeping H in the loop and let him pick the day that was best for him to pick her up and give her TLC while I am at work.

I let him know when she went into surgery and when I spoke to the vet about when she woke up. She is 12 years old so we were a little bit worried about her being under. Anyway, he was supposed to pick her up at 4:00, I haven't gotten an update or that he has even picked her up. This isn't the first time something like this has happened. I hate having to reach out to him to find out information. How can I make this a boundary that I would like for him to keep me in the loop like I have been with him.

One time he didn't call me for 2 hours after he took my S to the doctor and he had Strep Throat. I was so mad that he didn't call me right away.