I know right now i am just talking to myself in between respones but this is my outlet and my bouncing board.

Question
I plan on taking the kids to an amusement park next week, it would be overnight not far from us but 2 different places to go for the 2 days. Do i just make plans and tell her we are going and have my mother come so we are an even number or do i offer the chance to my wife? remember we still live in the same house in separate rooms and kids know something is wrong but not that we are on the verge of separation of living.

thanks again

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15