Sounds like some great warming- Glad to hear you had such a good bday! ML and holding hand is huge! Getting a bit more emotional connection always helps warm things up- keep up that vibe for sure. And maybe more of the "new, exciting you" kind of thing.. and way to go with the 'cute' behaviors- totally gets those H's fires burning again!
Master the self-fulfilling prophecy.. Act 'as if' it's going to happen and make it be!!
