Well, I certainly wouldn't be doing new finance with a WAS. Where's your guarantee? Current stuff, if it is practical, then yes, but nothing new.

As for 'I don't see why you should have more money than me', well, tough! Your W is leaving, she's wanting out. If she wants to be separate and independent, then she will have to provide for herself. Kids - yeah, you're gonna do that, why should they suffer, but W will have to learn to live on her own means.


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015