Have i been making mistakes too long part 5

[tkdmme]

I totally agree and I really want to but I know it will be a less than popular decision with her family. They are expecting me to continue to act as her husband regardless of what see has told me or what she is putting the family through. They are very insistent that our M work out. I don't think they know the magnitude of the sitch. They have been very supportive of me but they no nothing about DBing.

Also we are trying to refinance the house and if we split the bills and she doesn't pay hers on time it will effect our credit and thus ruin the chances for a refinance.

I feel like she is using me to set her up for a new life. Like with the refinance. She says she wants a divorce but still wants to refinance the house. It seems to me that she wants to lower the payment so that she can afford it by herself. Even if we refinance, She cant afford the house. I looked into Georgia child support and I would be looking at 1500 a month for the three kids. This is not a problem but that would only pay to keep the kids in private school.

I am going to do it anyway. Damn the torpedoes. She said once before when I suggested splitting the account that it would not be fair for me to have more money than her. Correct me if im wrong but that's BS. I worked hard for what I have. THe kids will be taken care of but its not my job to finance her new life.