Anger is guilt turned outwards. I bet he was feeling pretty uncomfortably guilty. Which he deserves.

Thank god for Obamacare, as you will be able to have health insurance! In the old days, once your super-expensive COBRA ran out, you would never be able to get insurance again unless you worked for a large corporation. People forget how many bankruptcies were caused by medical conditions.

If your only income right now is child support and small spousal support, you ought to qualify for subsidies, your insurance will probably be cheap or even free. The system is now designed to help people like you in situations like these that are not of your own making.

Look into any social support programs you may qualify for - depending on the amount of support you are getting, you might qualify for food stamps and/or assistance with your utility bills. Take everything that you are qualified for - again, this is what these programs are designed for, to help people like you and your children who have been thrown into this situation through no fault of your own, to get back on your feet.