It's just the feeling of giving in, of letting him dictate how it ends up which is getting to me.
What's your goal here? Is the goal to be right, or to move on? That is in no way a snide question, I mean it sincerely. What do you want out of this? Do you want to show him you can be firm and win on principle and fight to the death, even if it costs more than $10,000 in legal fees? (I know a couple that are still fighting after 15 years and more than $2mil in L fees.) Or can you swallow hard and take the financial hit and live with you being the one who gave in just to get away? There's no wrong answer here, it's whatever feels correct to you. Think about it. What do you want the end product to be? And there you'll have your answer.
