She fired you as her husband ... why do the accounting for free?
Personally I would absolutely split the finances, in fact I did ... and to be honest even as we are looking to figure out what the new M will look like, those finances are not going to be combined ever again.
She is going to be a bit forgetful because ... well she has other things she is thinking about to be honest.
I would split them, let her spew ... this is a leadership type move, you are protecting yourself and your kids here ... if she can not pay her side of things, thats a nice cup of reality she will have to drink on her own .. not your problem as you have been fired right?
You do not tell her this as a punishment, calmly and cooly you express how you feel its better this way with the direction things seem to be going and that's that ...hand her her new bank card and strut somewhere GAL like John Wayne.
She needs to SEE what life will be like, not hear it ya know?
