Cadet,

I have planted the seed of FDU 2.0 and thinking of how to grow into and become a better man. I am working on my GAL, detaching, sustaining my involvement with my kids despite them moving and 1 and 1/2 hours away and becoming an even better Dad.

I am finding it hard to get my confidence and self esteem up, thinking damn my wife didn't want me or care for me enough to stay and fight for this relationship and that she thinks there is someone better out there for her. So much that she turned our young kids lives upside down.

If I can get that so called Mojo back that women like and are attracted to I would feel better about myself and life would be better. I had so much confidence and self esteem and now nothing.