Her mother will be watching the kids (they are staying with MIL since they left). It's from 6-8pm and If I watched the kids and I left they would cry and not go to bed until real late.
I am going to the meeting and will see the kids Sunday.
I think the wife wants to show herself and everyone she can be a single strong parent.
Sometimes when I ask the kids have they ate and what they ate. She comes on the phone and defends herself saying she always cooks and does what she needs to. It's as though she thinks I'm putting her down or thinking she is not doing what a mother is suppose to do.
I think she is trying to justify she is being a good mom.
One thing she always says is she is happier (I don't think so) and the kids are better and happier (I know they are not).
She makes it seems like I was was and am a monster and I'm not. She says I'm not and to stop assuming. the stuff she says is one thing and the stuff she does is another and the stuff she text is another.
She always says it's going to take time and I ask her what she means and never says.
I really feel sometimes as time goes by she is slipping away and hope slips away as well.