Wow, your thread has quite the running legs, Cali! Lots of good information here, plus you yourself are quite good with words and story telling.

Originally Posted By: CaliGuy
We openly talked, much like Friday about intimacy and ... dare I say it .. sex. I confessed ... as much as I am a man and have needs, I am not ready. I know I am not ...


Have you made any moves? Has she? I wouldn’t wait too long, here’s why… That physical connection will make most of the other stuff you're still agonizing over seem so much smaller and easier to deal with.

I’m not talking about all night romps here… you have to start slow. But you have to start somewhere, and I guarantee that it will give you wings!

You've been taking charge/leading in other area's and she's been liking that.

Just something to think about.



Last edited by ForeverYoung; 08/27/15 02:41 PM.
M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

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