This is the perfect opportunity to get a better glimpse of where your H is right now.
Originally Posted By: BrightFuture
FY, what do you mean by this? Do you mean to see what he does about it himself?
You were doing a lot of guessing regarding the entire condo issue. Worried about H's situation, how he felt, and how he perceived you. It’s all guessing and making you spin!
That’s why I suggested it may be better to let him come to you if he has something to say or ask… then at least you have some facts and know what’s really going on in his world/mind.
The key to all this is finding your own way to peace. Not easy by any means, but it is the only way. I’m confident you can and will do it.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
