Also, another question. on trying to do 180 and GAL at the same time. my wife said that i would always just do what i wanted while it wasnt the same for her. when i feel like i want to do things on my own then it makes me feel I am still doing the same things that pushed her away.
I know tomorrow night she has a night planned to go out again. She asked if she needs to find a babysitter for the the kids. I told her no and that was all. I have to find something to occupy the time witht he kids and get out of the house early. I can not stand being there when she is getting ready to go out. It is mentally challenging for me to detach during those times then while she is gone.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
