Hi Dawn, I'm with you on the male companion train of thought. I'm not looking to get into another big relationship in the near future. But it would be nice to have some male fun and company at a lightish level and on my terms. Maybe I'll just keep flirting away at a gentle level, enjoy a little attention and keep it at a friendship.
Really enjoyed my yoga class last night. There were only a few of us and we had some nice chats during the class. There's an interesting woman who goes, and who knows a lot about good retreats, yoga weekends and so on. She's a mine of information & she's bringing along 'her book' (the info goldmine) to our next class.
I have a couple of outings this week with people linked to H. I'm off to lunch with SS and his Mum today and I'm seeing a mutual friend of ours (that I havent seen for 6 months) on Sat. TBH, I always feel some trepidation with this. I fear that I may find out something painful at these meetings. I try not to 'go there' in terms of talks about H, me and H, what he's doing, what's happening....but it can be a delicate balance (esp. with SS as I don't want to 'shut down' talk of his Dad.) Otherwise, it will be nice to see them & I'll report back on how it goes.
I'm excited to have another new regular GAL plan developing. I discovered that there is a drumming circle in my town that meets once a month. I always wanted to try drumming, and I'm going to go along to their session next week. It's supposed to be a pretty therapeutic activity, so we'll see...
Best wishes to you all xx
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T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
