Azzork - I would love to hear what you have to say. Advise away please!
In my state, you can file without a lawyer. We have agreed to go this direction. I have the papers in front of me now. It is a stack!
She wants the divorce, has moved in with her mom, the kids have started school this week, and I have been taking care of them. She will have them tomorrow at her mom's for her first overnight with them. I am going to go to work and then out for the night.