Hey Sunny
Thanks for asking your questions - I have the same questions and am entering this process right behind you. There are so many things to think of to protect yourself and the kids.

I am getting stressed out with every thought of this process.

I just wanted to let you know that I am by your side.
Stay strong
U


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015