Gosh, your first paragraph could have been written by me. I just want him to quickly come to his senses, and resume "normal". But I know that's not gonna happen, and our most recent normal obviously wasn't that great.

What makes it "piecing"? I'm new here, and still getting used to the concepts…

M: 48
H: 44
M: 2 / T: 7
My kids: S22, S18, S17, D12
H no kids of his own
BD: 7/12/2015 / moved out same day
Piecing 9/6/2015
Moved back in 10/2015