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If it helps, write down what you want to say to her and when you're ready to tell her, read from the script. That way you will only say as much as you want and you won't get sidetracked by her unpredictable response. I may look a little formal, reading from a prepared text, but at least you'll be able to stay on task.

When telling the kids, you can be more natural and just speak from the heart. I would tell the kids, then go right to W and read your text. Then maybe go back to the kids and tell them you told her so they can prepare themselves for her reaction.

Peter - I have thought about this as I have usually not said what I wanted to say as I don't plan very well for interaction in my prepared statements.

I'm really not sure I have very much to say to her. I suppose I could answer her questions if she is inclined to ask any, but I guess I just want to warn her that it is coming.

I will be tender with the kids though.

Thanks so much peter