Separated...and working on it

[Di-mond]

Thanks V for stopping by. To tell you the truth I think my major flare up was all due to stress. The stress of a miserable marriage, the stress of finances, the stress of a crappy job, the stress of kids not wanting to grow up. My goal for my future is less stress period in all aspects of my life. Funny thing is that my animals, although at times annoying and frustrating, help me to de-stress the most. I know I still have to pare down my herd to be able to move into an apartment, but I will try to keep as many as possible. I love my fur babies and they love me!!

Dawn,

Thanks as well for stopping by on my thread. I hope that someday (soon) I will be as far along as you. Regardless if my M survives or not I need to take care of me. Selling this house, as much as it [censored], will be therpeutic. I will be able to have a fresh start somewhere else, without constant reminders of my H or of my X-common-law-H. It will be my space and my space alone. Something I have never had in my life. I think when the hard work is done and I can have a breather I will look forward to decorating and living in my own four walls.