hold on!! - 12

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Threatening to kill someone is beyond just unravelling. At a minimum write those conversations down & if they are written (text, e-mail) preserve a copy.

I wouldn't worry too much about the timing, as you can tell the kids first, give it a few days for the 2 weeks to almost run & then let her know. If one of the kids tells her, it is likely too late for her to get to her L & screw things up.

Good luck.

thanks asitis.
I do try to keep everything (too much of everything I think though as I have an archive of sh!t that I don't even like to think about having - I hope to someday burn it all). Recording such incidences haven't been successful at all. (the biggest death threat rant happened while I was in the shower - look back to July4 if you want some entertainment).

I don't think timing makes much of a difference right now I think I need to have all of these conversations very soon as I think the serving is coming sooner than I expected - initial court date is set.

Thanks a bunch!!