Hi. I'm a newcomer too. Sorry that we're on these boards. Have you watched MWDs Videos on YouTube? It's the same stuff that you read on these posts, and in DR, but I have found repetition helps.
I am too new to have any advice or hope to offer. I agree with you, though, that it's very disheartening to see posters who signatures include the word divorced. I would like to see more that said reconciled at the bottom of their signature. And also to read more success stories. But the reality is, not all marriages make it. And DBing Will help us, whether or not it helps our marriage.
M: 48 H: 44 M: 2 / T: 7 My kids: S22, S18, S17, D12 H no kids of his own BD: 7/12/2015 / moved out same day Piecing 9/6/2015 Moved back in 10/2015