Thank you for the article. It is very inspiring and gives me some strength and hope. I understand that there is NOTHING I can do to make H do anything. Why do I beat up myself for something I can not control...
In a reality of my situation, I am still not sure exactly how I can remove myself from H since he comes home every day to take a shower, change and take care of the kids. I don't interact with him unless he does, I don't ask about R,,, how can I put it in practice "you can not have me(or family) while you have A"?
