I am happy to hear your treatment is working, you are a strong lady Vge and it shows through all you do and say.
As for your h - I am so sorry you are having to deal with the fallout of his selfishness, I really hope that mediation has gone your way, please do let us know.
Vge, you are one gutsy women and I am always in awe of the way you have handled this. There are many kinds of MLC'er and sadly you got one of the ones who is determined to cause you as much hurt as possible, yet you manage to absorb it and carry on - you are remarkable.