Quote: My fault, I wish I could take it back and just let him be himself. Who knows, this may never have happened this way if he wasn't trying to "find himself."
Don't be so hard on yourself. You did what you did in what you thought was his best interest. I think everyone wants to help their spouse be the best they can be, and while we can encourage our spouses' growth, while we can become the person that they can't live without, they are the ones that must ultimately choose how they live their lives. I think you've learned this since you started DBing, and that's the important thing to remember.
