Yes I have started reading the links. My question here is it seems like so many of th people th a want to help lost their spouse. Their spouses left never came back. So I that I true why not just say it a lost cause.
1) Read. The. Links. 2) The people that come here are already lost causes. That ANY of them have succeeded is incredible. Ive seen at least 5 or 6 spouses return since Ive been here - maybe one a month. Im guessing there are more that I cant think of off the top of my head. Id say thats pretty good. I would also guess that there would be more, but people are impatient and so they prematurely write the end of their own story. 3) I believe you are defining success as "marriage restored". I believe that there are a lot more success stories out there. Poeple that come here completely broken, and leave restored, marriage or not.
Originally Posted By: Mavrik
I truly believe thing Will ot change unless she leaves an see things aren't greener on th other side and sees what she lost
Seems like solid advice. Have you been advised otherwise here?
