All of the items come up after we have any disagreement on something or i start detaching.
I know i have a hard time with the 180's and detaching. this is difficult because i want to love her and show her.
Hello OTW - Im really sorry you are here. Id start by reading all of the links Cadet posted. And probably read them again.
As for what I quoted - Im not sure youre doing this right. Detachment isnt about ignoring her, or leaving her out, or being cold, or being distant. Read the detachment thread...then lets talk!
