BT - Nobody EVER thinks they will get to this point. Nobody ever gets married thinking "my spouse is going to leave me for someone else".
I always thought that if I got divorced, I would see it coming. I would hate the other person and be glad to be done with it. She would hate me.
And yet....here I am. Still in love with a woman whose heart is closed off to me, riding the countdown clock to being officially legally divorced.
And you know what? IM BETTER FOR IT. Every other facet of my life is better because this happened. I will survive. I will persevere. And I will find someone to share that with in the future....whether its my wife or someone else.
